He appears to be in deep thought, just staring at the wall.  She watches as he wipes a tear from his eye and takes a sip of his coffee.

'What's the matter, dear?' she whispers as she steps into the room. 'Why are you down here at this time of night?'

The husband looks up from his coffee, 'Do you remember 20 years ago when we were dating, and you were only 18?' he asks solemnly.

'Yes I do' she replies.

The husband pauses; the words were not coming easily. 'Do you remember when your father caught us in the garden?'

'Yes, I remember' said the wife, lowering herself into a chair beside him.

The husband continued.. 'Do you remember when he showed the shotgun in my face and said, 'Either you marry my daughter, or I'll send you to jail for 20 years?'

'I remember that too' she replied softly.

He wiped another tear from his cheek and said, 'I would have been released today!'

WHY DID I GET MARRIED?????????

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• TIPS FOR KEEPING A MAN ATTRACTED" 
  
  Ever wonder why men can act so "hot and cold" and lose interest so quickly?

• You meet a great guy and share an amazing "connection"… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

• Why is this so common? Even with guys who seem great at first?

• The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start "feeling it" for you again- when you know what to do.

• So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.

• If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.

• In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.

• Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

• Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not

• Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be "needy" for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your "friends" closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and "smothered" by you. "Why didn’t you call yesterday?" can be the very definition of "needy" to a man.

• Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women

• Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the "everyday" stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life... and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

• Tip #3: Creating A Level Of "Unpredictability" With Him Never Fails

• If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

• By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re "just a fling" to him, or his "true love."

• Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:

• * How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)

• * The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been "serious" for a while

• * How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you ... keep it up and he'll love you forever )

• * The differences in how men think about dating... and why your man won’t think or talk "commitment" unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him

• * How to "cheat-proof" your relationship... and why he might be tempted

• * The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available"... how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one

• * And lots more...

• An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP Mr. Right...

• Dear Friend,

• I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them...

• Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt?

• You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him?

• In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you.

• Another one...

• Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?

• Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway.

• And finally:

• Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after?

• You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.

• I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:

• "He's just a jerk, forget about him".

• Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you.

• And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.

• In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).

• In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently...

• Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right.

• Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.

• You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do...

• " 3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted"

• Ever wonder why men can act so "hot and cold" and lose interest so quickly?

• You meet a great guy and share an amazing "connection"… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

• Why is this so common? Even with guys who seem great at first?

• The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start "feeling it" for you again- when you know what to do.

• So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.

• If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.

• In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.

• Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

• Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not

• Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be "needy" for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your "friends" closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and "smothered" by you. "Why didn’t you call yesterday?" can be the very definition of "needy" to a man.

• Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women

• Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the "everyday" stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life... and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

• Tip #3: Creating A Level Of "Unpredictability" With Him Never Fails

• If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

• By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re "just a fling" to him, or his "true love."

• Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:

• * How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)

• * The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been "serious" for a while

• * How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you ... keep it up and he'll love you forever )

• * The differences in how men think about dating... and why your man won’t think or talk "commitment" unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him

• * How to "cheat-proof" your relationship... and why he might be tempted

• * The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available"... how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one

• * And lots more...

• An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP Mr. Right...

• Dear Friend,

• I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them...

• Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt?

• You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him?

• In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you.

• Another one...

• Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?

• Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway.

• And finally:

• Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after?

• You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.

• I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:

• "He's just a jerk, forget about him".

• Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you.

• And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.

• In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).

• In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently...

• Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right.

• Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.

• You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do...

• THREE Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted"

• Ever wonder why men can act so "hot and cold" and lose interest so quickly?

• You meet a great guy and share an amazing "connection"… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

• Why is this so common? Even with guys who seem great at first?

• The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start "feeling it" for you again- when you know what to do.

• So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.

• If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.

• In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.

• Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

• Tip 1: 
  A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not

• Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be "needy" for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your "friends" closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and "smothered" by you. "Why didn’t you call yesterday?" can be the very definition of "needy" to a man.

• Tip 2:
   Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women

• Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the "everyday" stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life... and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

• Tip 3 
  Creating A Level Of "Unpredictability" With Him Never Fails

• If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

• By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re "just a fling" to him, or his "true love."

• Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:

• How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)

• The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been "serious" for a while

• How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you ... keep it up and he'll love you forever )

• The differences in how men think about dating... and why your man won’t think or talk "commitment" unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him

• How to "cheat-proof" your relationship... and why he might be tempted

• The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available"... how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one

• And lots more...

• An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP Mr. Right...

• Dear Friend,

• I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them...

• Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt?

• You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him?

• In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you.

• Another one...

• Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?

• Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place... but you did it anyway.

• And finally:

• Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after?

• You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.

• I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:

• "He's just a jerk, forget about him".

• Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you.

• And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.

• In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).

• In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently...

• Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right.

• Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.

• You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do...